The Depressed Moose and My Return

There was a time when my old persona saved my life, and that of others too. Writing about my battle with depression, sharing it with so many people and ultimately becoming a mental health campaigner and someone who was “known” in that social media world – or #famoose if you would prefer is still something that fills me with an enormous sense of pride and happiness. It was a time in my life where I made a difference to others, inspired others, helped others and achieved things that were beyond my expectations all despite being depressed.

My blog was successful in terms of numbers, I was asked multiple times to write pieces for the press and even had my face on material for Mind. It is a period of my life that I am incredibly proud of. I turned readers of my blog into amazing friends who are still with me to this day.

I walked away from that world, gave up writing completely and moved on with my life depression free and happy again. I met and fell in love with an amazing woman and the future looked bright.

Life doesn’t always work the way we plan and dream about and after 3 and a half years the amazing woman has become a stranger. The relationship broke down my heart broke and my world was turned upside down. The reasons behind it no longer matter she has her truth, I have my truth and life goes on.

I rebuilt from a failed marriage, a suicide attempt and years of depression, I will rebuild again from a toxic relationship and emerge stronger, happier and a better person once more. I fought to save a relationship that ultimately was toxic, abusive and would have eventually destroyed my confidence, self esteem and isolated me from everyone who cared about me. Fought against the advice of friends and family because I refused to listen and see what was really happening.

Eventually we reach a point where we have had enough and realise our own value and worth. My limits were breached time and time again because I was beginning to believe I deserved it. Regardless of this and who is to blame I am at that stage whereby I’ve got over it. I deserve faithfulness, respect and honesty and wont accept less.

So where does this leave me? For starters I’m a worker moose now! For 5 years I was unable to work but I have been in the same job now for 18 months. Despite the negatives of the relationship it did help me in many ways, my depression has been gone for years and Im able to work daily without sickness leave or mental health worries and those positives are the ones I will take away from it.

I was unable to be “moose” but now I can return to my online persona as well as maintaining Garry and my mental health is always under control.

From the confines of the spare room at my mums at the age of 39 I will rebuild and find love, happiness and be someone who helps, inspires and makes a difference once again.

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Back to basics

I used to be a blogger years ago. I used to be someone in this little corner of the internet. I was known as the depressed moose and my blog was pretty successful. I still have books on Amazon but alas i forgot to renew the old domain and its been bought by a company in the far east.

The depression has gone but the Moose still remains

Having just come out of a long term relationship that did not end well and not as planned I have decided to return to an outlet that has helped me immensely over the years. I have lots of things to talk about and get off my chest. Today 29th November is my 39th birthday so we could enjoy a midlife crisis together or a year of healing from a broken relationship. The truth is right now anything could come out but I promise you this. It will be honest, emotional, heartfelt, raw, funny and interesting.

So Hi my name is Garry or Moose. Welcome along for the ride!